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When my mother says we will be remembered by what we tried to save 



She means young starlings wrapped in kitchen towels, 

orphaned cottontails found in the schoolyard,

splay-foot chicks with legs bound. 

Still-blind kittens, once hungry and crying,

pulled from behind a woodpile. 

The injured goat kid no one else wanted.

The daughter who wanted to name them all. 

My mother’s gift to me when I left home: 

the necklace I wear for luck now 

because my grandmother,

who died when my mother was four,

wore it and had none. My mother, even now,

waits for me in a white room

while I am stitched back into myself,

and hugs too hard, as certain as she has always been 

in her belief that the needle hurts less than the splinter.

That a cup of table salt poured into an old sock 

and microwaved can draw out an ear infection. 

That you might as well try. 

I didn’t realize for a long time that we were reading 

not just books, but birds. That I was learning

to keep looking for what was gone 

as if it would be the last place I looked.

I wish I could speak to my mother before I knew her,

when she was an orphaned girl 

who sat listening to the windy prairie pre-dawn,

the field of stars beginning to fade away,

her cheek against the rising 

and falling ribs of the brown-eyed cow

that breathed mist into the gentle darkness. 

The warm milk that pinged into the pail

as unremarkable as a prayer.

I’d tell her, You were always wanted

I want to believe that I am beginning to understand now

the work it takes to live.

All the hurt and the miracle of it.




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